...addicted to anguish

Updated: Feb 15



Why do we stay in the cycle of pain/abuse/toxicity/-ve trait?


Since childhood, the pain-cycle is known and familiar (repetition cycle) and our bodies identify with it as our comfort compass (familiar).

There’s a rise in hormones, which our bodies get used to and crave consistently.

That is why most abusive relationships feel like ‘home’.


Unknown & unfamiliar is scary.

We have no clue about what’s lying at the other end!


Though we’ve already lived through lonesome levels of psychological/ emotional & physical abuse proving our reverent resilience, the unknown still seems unnerving.

Overlooking our strength, we come to terms with anxiety and throw in the towel.

What’s more, an emotional fear (blocked inner child energy) sets in to deal with our innate solitude and face our dark side, which is a tremendous threat to the EGO!


Thereon we become accustomed to the abuse/addiction-cycle or our comfort zone.

There’s a deep-seated (false) belief that we deserve this unlivable life!


Our spirit/inner-child/highest SELF will keep us on our toes till we surrender to being who we all are – unconditional love 😍 🤗


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