...core compromise



The wider the inner-child’s wound-gaping is, consistently we compromise & abandon ourselves in adult relationships.


Compromising ourselves can often come from a need to make others happy.

We need to figure out with rational reality - at the cost of self-abandonment, why are we inclined to please others?


The faulty fear of being worthless/unlovable/unaccepted/rejected/ridiculed makes us control others.

Through caretaking/submission/prioritizing others, we resort to controlling how they feel/behave towards us ➡️ to give us the love, acceptance & validation that we NEED to give our selves.


In the process of compromising our authentic self, we’re clueless about our heart’s passions & dreams.


As it would have, we develop deep-seated resentment for our partners as we lose touch with ourselves to make them happy.


Orphaning our heart, we never seem to get what we want.

It is a cosmic cue that we’re going after the wrong things.


Wholeheartedly, we NEED to surrender the love (we have for partner/family/friends) toward ourselves.

What about trying to spend ‘me time’ with our inner-child?

Or we could begin by writing a diary about our emotions!

We can make a list of our accomplishments or champion ourselves in every baby step to self-love!

Just seizing a little time going slow & silent would bring us closer to our inner children...

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