...perfectionism pretence


“Many people think of perfectionism as striving to be your best, but it is not about self-improvement; it’s about earning approval and acceptance.

-Brene Brown”


We all are born perfectly imperfect.

Our classic capabilities, labelled as imperfections, are the beauty marks that sets us apart from each other.


Though our higher self knows & acknowledges this tucked-away treasure, the acceptance of our imperfections is not well worn in our other facets.


Growing up & coping up with our dysfunctional upbringing we developed petty parts within us, mirroring our parents/caregivers, who reject/replace/repulse/ridicule our supreme superpowers.


The price paid for the so-called ‘perfect’ persona, social norms & standards, religious taboos, racial discrimination, gender bias and so on is sacrificing our ‘imperfect’ originality.


We grow up abandoning our shy & shameful selves (inner-child) for the sake of fitting in the perfect role we're expected to play.


Why can't we dance to our tunes, termed as flaws, & rejoice in our humanness honourably?


Aren't our definitive differences & their awry acceptance, the sublime symphony played by the cosmic conductor?

All in all, acceptance & unconditional love, for self & the whole, connects our consciousness as one.

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