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Updated: Mar 14

A sub-personality is a psychodynamic structure which once a complex then seeks its own existence. It has its own characteristics and demands its own existence and the fulfilment of its wishes wants and needs through the personality.
-Dr. Margret Rueffler
Each sub-personality organizes itself around a need of the whole personality. The strength of each is probably the result of the circumstances out of which the need initially was born. Each human being is a manifold mixture of very individual sub-personalities. -Janette Rainwater
Primary & Sub-personalities are the coping mechanism of a young child to meet its needs formulated on its judgment of dualities & past experiences. All different& auxiliary selves act as a bodyguard to the core vulnerabilities (inner-child). As an adult, unconsciously toing and froing between personalities , we enact the ritualistic roles as a retort to day to day life!
Examples of various selves that we playâŚ
The Protector/Controller
The Perfectionist
The Helper
The Pleaser
The Artist
The Performer
The Romantic
The Observer
The Loyal Skeptic
The Positive Planner
The Manager
The Mediator
The Romantic
The Angry Girl
The Organizer
The Party Girl
The Quester
The Social Reformer
The Politician
The Survivor
The Ambassador
The Reactionary
The Social Guardian
The Nurturer
The Secret Agent
The Warrior
The Adventurer
The Commander
The Seeker
The Rescuer
The Saint
The Group Leader
The Community Benefactor
The Savior
The Bad boy/girl
The Bitch/brat
The Clown
The Jester/Joker
The Control freak
The Inner Critic
The Daydreamer
The Devil
The Disciple
The Star
The Unworthy One
The (family) Victim
The Dominatrix
The Easy Achiever
The Exhibitionist
The Good boy/girl
Good Dad/Mom
The Hermit
The Hippie
Hurt little boy/girl
The Innocent one
The Invisible little girl
The Loner
The Mischievous Kid
Miss Heartbroken
Miss Sexless
Miss Sexy
Mover & Shaker
Mr All-knowing
Mr Caring
Mr Clean
Mr Cool
Mr Extreme
Mr I-Can-Do-Anything
Mr Innocent
Mr Shocked
Mr Nice Guy
Mr Righteous
Ms Determination
Ms Easy Going
Ms Fearless
Ms I-Know-Nothing
Ms Know-It-All
Ms Rational
Brave Young Man
Sacred Little Girl
Scared To Death
Spontaneous Kid
...and so on.
đ¤ Why do we choose our choices (if there were/are any!) ?
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